To live a fulfilling and spontaneous sexuality, it is recommended not to impose a level of perfectionism to his partner.
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The female libido and is extremely sensitive to pressure, according to the results ofa study published in the medical journal Archives of Sexual Behavior. More a man imposes pressure on his wife, she may lose her sexual desire. Devoir duty be 'perfect'physically, sexually for his partner, would result in a first time a lack of self-confidence and a loss of libido.
Researchers at the University of Kent (United Kingdom) have analysed data from thelife of couple of 366 women to understand what could change and interfere with their sexuality and their libido.
The questionnaires focused on their expectations, beliefs and experiences of sexuality and the main criteria for their sexual function.
Scientists have analyzed the degree of "perfectionism" of volunteers. It has been described in 4 distinct types: auto-oriente, the required or desired by the partner, partner-oriented or socially induced.
It is clear that as soon as partners impose on their women a level of perfectionism, this causes perverse effects on self-confidence and their libido. Indeed, when perfectionism is required or desired by the partner, the woman loses his self-confidence and his sexual desire.
«For spontaneous and fulfilling sexuality, it is important to be indulgent with his partner,» says Professor Joachim Stoeber at the University of Kent.